http://listen-to-bella.blogspot.com/2011/04/blog-post_19.html

"捍東在藍宇家中作客，夜深在酒醉中醒來，望著剛洗完澡的藍宇，他問，還是在用那種洗髮水嗎？藍宇頓了頓，靦腆地說，嗯，還是在用那種洗髮水。然後二人沉默對望，捍東忍不住開口說，真想抱抱你。藍宇想了想，就趨前，抱住了他。他竟然就這樣，抱住了當天狠心拋棄他的人。最後他鬆開手，笑笑說，你胖了。這句說話有如雷擊，捍東緊緊的抱他入懷，「那時候，我是怎麼會放你走的？」沒有一句「我愛你」，但二人的心聲再不須以言語道破。"

Soulmate

Got this from Internet. Are most women mature or just too naive?

 

"I think Mr Big represents the guy that you'll just never get out of your mind...the guy that makes you go crazy...the guy that you let walk all over you simply because you just like him so much..the guy who's emotionally unavaialble but that makes you feel safe in a way because it means he can't commit enough for you to really hurt him...the guy who you will always wish you were with if you married Aiden.

Aiden is safe in a different way...you know he will never hurt you but you want to feel more than that...you want to feel how you feel with Big...you don't want to 'settle' just because he seems like the perfect father for your children...

Mr Big is about real, soulmate, can't live without each other love...

Aiden is about what seems to be the right thing to do...

Mr Big is following your heart...

Aiden is following a path that you feel you 'should'...

Yes...Mr Big will break your heart, repeatedly...but wouldn't you prefer a broken heart over one that never gets full enough to break?

*sigh*

All that being said...a Mr Big can be infuriating! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr! I have one right now and he's driving me crazy but i wouldn't give up the way he makes me feel for a thousand Aidens!"

由衷的替朋友高興，能找到一個完全接受自己所有的另一半不容易。

一定一定要幸福。

很欣賞友人擁有永遠向前的勇氣。她經歷的大概是我兩輩子的事了。
管它的，快樂就好。

謝謝給我正能量!

近日益發覺得自己像Winifred Lai說的「無頭雞仔」。忙得團團轉的，又沒有output，公私事都一樣。都沒有在家中好好坐下來，靜靜地讀書、看完一套電影、或者最簡單的：什麼也不做........

這樣的狀態會維持多久?

這樣的狀態能維持多久?

【班扎古魯白瑪的沉默】作者：扎西拉姆．多多

你見　或者不見我
我就在那裡　不悲不喜

你念　或者不念我
情就在那裡　不來不去

你愛　或者不愛我
愛就在那裡　不增不減

你跟　或者不跟我
我的手就在你的手裡　不捨不棄

來我的懷裡　或者
讓我住進你的心裡

默然　相愛
寂靜　歡喜

久違了的寧靜...
今夜真的很適合哭泣
但我沒有

希望只是一時間情緒低落