"岩的決定往往只係一個偶然"

"愛人和被愛是雞與蛋的關係，你愛了別人，別人才覺得你值得愛；你被別人愛了，才發現別人也需要你愛……去愛人，是向別人證明“我很重要”；被愛，是向自己證明“我很重要”，這兩個“重要”組成了阿拉活著的重量。 無論你選愛你的，還是你愛的，你都要付出愛，也都要獲得愛，兩個方向都能走通，這段愛才能成功。

因此參悟這道選擇題，並不難——愛你的，你愛的，是主動，還是被動，這只是起步時的方向問題，想要愛情長久，你必須補上另外一個方向。 選了愛你的，你就得學會去愛他；選了你愛的，你就得教會他愛你。 無論一開始你選哪一個，想進入長久的戀愛關係，所要經歷的關卡是一樣的，並沒有差別。"

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知識就是力量

這陣子為了事業上的變化、男朋友置業等等，不經不覺堆積了不少壓力，睡得不好，惡夢連連。情緒可以抑壓，然而身體總會找到機會告訴你：you need a break.

置業的事情現在總算搞定，與此同時我的財商亦提高了不少（從前是零好不好）。

「知識就是力量」－－真珠都無咁真。

Dear Mr. Nadeau:

As long as there is one upright man, as long as there is one compassionate woman, the contagion may spread and the scene is not desolate. Hope is the thing that is left to us, in a bad time. I shall get up Sunday morning and wind the clock, as a contribution to order and steadfastness.

Sailors have an expression about the weather: they say, the weather is a great bluffer. I guess the same is true of our human society — things can look dark, then a break shows in the clouds, and all is changed, sometimes rather suddenly. It is quite obvious that the human race has made a queer mess of life on this planet. But as a people we probably harbor seeds of goodness that have lain for a long time waiting to sprout when the conditions are right. Man’s curiosity, his relentlessness, his inventiveness, his ingenuity have led him into deep trouble. We can only hope that these same traits will enable him to claw his way out.

Hang on to your hat. Hang on to your hope. And wind the clock, for tomorrow is another day.

Sincerely,
E. B. White

關於真命天子，已婚的友人曾經這樣形容：反正你會強烈的感到「是他了！」，你是會知道的。我猜，心底裡有把聲音告訴你「是他了！」，是一個指標；相反，那聲音沒有說「不是他！」「應該不是他…」──不猶疑、不帶憂慮，也是另一指標。至於時間呢？我的經驗是一年半。給雙方一年半的時間，時間到了，問題依然存在的話，就別再浪費時間精神了。

女人：（身體抱恙，睡了一整天）晏晝好好陽光呀，o徒哂（不開心狀）
男人：唔緊要啦，以後我地仲有好多陽光..
女人：.........哈哈哈哈哈哈哈.....好娘呀你！！

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