"哲學家尼采道：「也許我是最了解為何只有人會笑的，只有人如此深刻地受著痛苦，因而需要發明笑。」尼采大概是對的。痛苦到了極點，惟有嘲笑自己；幸福到了極致，就會變得疼痛。在人世間經歴了萬轉千迴，最終發現哭與笑，同出一轍。"

Make each other a better and happier person

When I was surrounded by a bunch of married girl friends, I swear to God....I didn't feel the urge to find someone to tie the knot with. Instead, they got me thinking how could they make that decision...

Like, ok, I am going to be with this man for the rest of my life..
Like, ok, I'm willing to take care of him, clean his body for him when he becomes too old to do so..
Like, ok, I want to have my baby boy looks exactly the same as this man..
Like, ok, now I'm willing to give up the jungle, give up the opportunities to share my life with another possible soulmate..
Like, ok, I want to be with him and only him, for better or worse..
Like, ok, I bear the risk that this man might go out meet hot chick when I become old and fat and unattractive..coz he has made me dare to risk it..

Does that sound silly to you? Perhaps...or call me over-thinker ...yet, at my age, when it comes to marriage, if you ask me to trust my own feelings and instincts, I'd say...stop BS..and roll my eyes....

I understand too damn well ... "HELL IS THE OTHER"...

So, my dear single girls.. silly or not... I find it a pretty good checklist before you make a lifetime decision.
http://www.wikihow.com/See-if-He's-the-One

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做自己的fund manager .. 一千幾百咁小小地咁賺, 好過買基金呀真係。

"岩的決定往往只係一個偶然"

"愛人和被愛是雞與蛋的關係，你愛了別人，別人才覺得你值得愛；你被別人愛了，才發現別人也需要你愛……去愛人，是向別人證明“我很重要”；被愛，是向自己證明“我很重要”，這兩個“重要”組成了阿拉活著的重量。 無論你選愛你的，還是你愛的，你都要付出愛，也都要獲得愛，兩個方向都能走通，這段愛才能成功。

因此參悟這道選擇題，並不難——愛你的，你愛的，是主動，還是被動，這只是起步時的方向問題，想要愛情長久，你必須補上另外一個方向。 選了愛你的，你就得學會去愛他；選了你愛的，你就得教會他愛你。 無論一開始你選哪一個，想進入長久的戀愛關係，所要經歷的關卡是一樣的，並沒有差別。"

http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MjM5MzIyNTA5NA==&mid=200483655&idx=3&sn=5c58bf67e70020054c8af87ffd1d7649